Have
you ever tried to put together a big jigsaw puzzle without the box?
Attempting to fit together 1,000 tiny pieces into a picture is difficult
enough, but imagine doing so without knowing what the
final product is
supposed to look like. How in the world do you begin to create a picture
out of such chaos?
This is how most of us go about the daunting task of building a
marriage. We attempt to wade through the challenges of communication,
sexual difficulties, conflict, and money issues without a clear vision
of what we are trying to construct. What is the picture on the box?
After all, what is a Christian marriage even supposed to look like?
A Christian marriage isn't about creating a love that is brand new;
instead, it asks us to discover and replicate God's love, which has
existed since the Garden of Eden. The commitment of a husband and wife
isn't just about to trying to build a happy family. It is supposed to
point to something beyond the walls of your home.
Understanding God's design for marriage can help you put into context
the suffering that marriage sometimes brings, the ecstasy of being
intimately known, and the challenge to love in all circumstances
When the world looks at how Christians act in marriage, they should see
a testimony of God's unfailing commitment and sacrificial love.
Understanding God's design for marriage can help you put into context
the suffering that marriage sometimes brings, the ecstasy of being
intimately known, and the challenge to love in all circumstances.
When I put together a puzzle, I constantly refer to the picture on the
box. I thoroughly study each piece to discern where it fits within the
whole picture. I'm learning to do the same in my marriage. There are
days when I stumble on something that confuses or disappoints me.
Instead of trying to figure it out on my own, I'm learning to refer to
the big picture of God's Word. What does God want to teach me through
this trial? How can I be a testimony to others who are watching my
marriage? What does this situation teach me about God's faithfulness?
Far too many Christians have forgotten about the picture on the puzzle
box. When none of the pieces seem to fit or make sense, it can seem easy
to just give up. If this describes your marriage, it's time to start
looking at the big picture of what marriage is supposed to be about in
the first place. Contrary to public sentiment, marriage isn't ultimately
about your happiness or fulfillment. It is a refining fire that
represents the covenant love, the unfailing commitment of God to his
chosen people.
When Your Marriage Is Difficult Remember to look at the big picture by Dr. Juli Slattery
Reviewed by Awareness
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Tuesday, August 30, 2016
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