Update:Readers say they will accept a spouse's secret family

A vast majority of voters on the dilemma of Ruth Anajemba where a hidden family suddenly emerges after
her husband's death, are of the view that she should accept the family and move on with her life.

In a letter sent to Pulse by Ruth, she claimed that it was only after the death of her husband that she got to realise that the man was married with grown children but had carefully kept the truth from her.

Her problem is that the family seems to tilt towards the other family and in the sharing of her husband's properties, they favour the other woman and her children.

With that in mind, we came up with this poser:

What would you do if you realise your spouse had a hidden family after his/her death?

How Nigeria voted:

65% - I will welcome them into our home

35% - They will never be part of the family

So how would you vote?

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