"Be soft with people"

Sometimes, there are people in your family that do not like hearing from you. Maybe, you became closer to
the deen, but they are not closer to the deen, and that makes you angry.

It makes you angry that some women in your family do not wear Hijab. It makes you angry that some young men in your family do not pray.

You get mad at them. No! do not get angry at them. Speak with them peacefully and calmly.

Your anger will only take them farther away from the deen, it will not bring them closer.

You have to have a soft heart for those who are not there yet.

You know you were not praying five times a day. There was a time you were not like that.

If somebody spoke to you angrily, will you start praying, or go further away?