Why girls get disappointed after long term relationship

                                              

As Onye Nna and big bros ,i will speak to you frankly without euphemistic phrases that will make you to feel alright ..
I know the pains that goes with when a GUY promised to marry you and after 5 years without fanfare,without discussion ,he will leave you and marry another Girl . That guy must be heartless but come with me sister ,sit down very well think of your attitude to that Boy and tell yourself the truth ,if such a girl comes to your blood brother will you allow him to marry her ?
some of you sees any Boy that showed you love as ATM machine,you don,t care nor wants to know is he is progressing in his business or work ,what you care about is..I want that latest New PHONE ,i want that BRAZILIAN HAIR, most of the time the price of the hair you are carrying is more expensive than the brain inside your head .
Some of you are sarcastically mad that they will ask a boy ,if she is going to chop Love or use love to make her hair,in plain language what the girl is saying is that ,SHE USES HER THING FOR TRADING ,so after the guys finish paying you for services do not deceive yourself that he has plans for you in his future .

Imagine you want somebody to buy you Hair of 20 K while you are not working or where you are working you cannot save half of that in a month . You want your your boyfriend to buy you Phone that cost above 50 K ,while the phone he is using is less than 6K ,then you want him to keep recharging your data every month ? and at the back of your mind you think he is the MUGU that will eventually marry you ? ,unless he drank the urine of a PIG and it blurred his sense and sight.
Then your empty head did not tell you that you are too expensive for him as a wife ? ,don,t you know that if he made that mistake of marrying you he will be in chronic bondage of debt all the days of his life because he won,t be making enough money to keep you on cosmetics ,therefore ,the day he wakes up to marry he will start looking for marital type ,the one that can live with his budget ,with the provision of his income and not your type that will drive him into crime to enable him keep up with your luxurious ways of life .
How about your attitude toward his parents and relations ? do you think it does,nt matter ? ,do you think they do not have a say in his choice of wife ? ,how do you show your self to his friends too ?.
Listen here my Dear Beautiful sister ,abia na iyi oyi ,a boy needs nobody's approval , but once it is marriage ,people will get committed ,the family may swear over their dead body should he marry you not because they,ve caught you in a Hotel or at Dibia's house ,mbanu ,they ran a conclusion because of the way you present yourself .
Sometimes you carry ARTIFICIAL nail that is about 3 feet long ,eye lash that is longer than WITCHES BROOM ,then you paint your face TEXT COAT and you think people are blind ?,the mother will imagine over what you will do with the long nail ,if you can wash clothes and plates with it ,if you can carry a baby with it,she must have known that you cannot cook with that Witches Nail and Broom glued on your face,atimes when you see those artificial eye lash that is falling off you will puke ,but progressing on our discussion ,the mother will wonder also the rational behind your ARTIFICIAL NAILS,artificial breast ,artificial ASS ,artificial eye lash ,artificial walk , artificial greetings and the worst is your ARTIFICIAL LIFE .
Ada ,if you truly wants to be married then start acting like a future African wife ,you cannot be acting like MODERN DAY QUEEN JEZEBEL and expect a Boy to walk into marriage with you ,,,,in case you did not know it ,not every woman is made for marriage ,your character must be testimonial to make you belong to the group of those that are sought after for I DO .
Finally for a single girl who is flaunting 3 different types of PHONES ,i am not talking of those extra expensive phones but 3 phones at same time ,a man will think twice if he can be able to maintain those numbers if he marry you and some will simply decide na VOOM ka nma karia let me explain . Those using quite expensive phones ,do not worry very soon PA GO SLOW may approve woman to marry her phones and you will have a field day . Any reasonable man knows that a woman has brandish 3 Phones are simply put A RUNS girl because a working class Girl will contend with just one phone or 2 in case of bad network but those with 3 phones ,,,that is their place of work and they can never abandon that phone not for a second because each one represents a particular connection and the voice they employ in answering each of them differs .
A single Lady riding SUV which we call JEEP in Nigeria and you want a man to come and pay your bride price ? a man who treks or the one that is riding one 25 years old battered Car ?
The truth is that most men cannot tell you that you are too expensive for them ,they will simply walk away and another one will also walk away for same reason .

The way you package yourself determines the class men will place you ,if you dress like SHOW ROOM prostitute ,do not blame Boys when they disappear before the dotted line .

if you love to spend or love your man to spend recklessly on you ,then be rest assured that there is expiring date and extend of your relationship with him.
Have a great Sunday Jari .

Mazi Odera
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we shove it down your throat.The Choice is yours.
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