Sex before marriage, right or evil?

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I am Delight, a 27-year-old lady. I have a problem that I hope your readers can help me with valuable advice.
For starters, I beg you guys not to throw insults at me but just to give me your take on this issue.

I am in love with a 35-year-old man and we hope to get married next year but the problem is that he is the church type who is so engrossed with the injunction of no sex before marriage.

I am the exact opposite as I have never pretended to be prude or a virgin. I am a modern girl and I believe it is best to know if the man you want to spend the rest of your life is sexually active or not.

I would not want to be frustrated when I get married and cheat on my husband. I want to be sure he can satisfy me sexually but he would not budge. I have tried everything to have him make love to me but he keeps maintaining his stance.
We have been dating for over a year now and it is so frustrating that I do not know my man in bed.
I get tempted to seek sex from other men but I had made a vow that once I meet a man who wants to get married to me, I would never cheat on him.
But now it is becoming so frustrating. What do I do?
Delight,

Lagos."
Dear readers, we ask: is it wise for intending couples to wait till marriage before having sex in this modern era?