7 ways to make a decision when torn between two men

                                                   
You can actually like two men at the same time and become confused when it's time to make a choice between them. While it may be fun even flattering that they are both competing for your attention, you're bound to feel stressed till you make up your mind.

It doesn't mean you should make hasty decisions, it's okay if you use your instincts. Corina Dondas of All Women Stalk lists some helpful tips on how to choose between between two men that will make your decision a bit easier:

    Consider the positive qualities of each guy: One of the first things you should do when you need to choose between two #men is to consider the positive qualities of each guy. Just think about what you like about them so much. Do they make you laugh? Do they have a good sense of humor? Are they in touch with their emotional side? Are they treating you respectfully?

    Consider how each guy make you feel: Even though someone may have a lot of great qualities, if you want to start a #relationship with them, you also need to take into consideration how they make you feel when you are with them. Do they bring out the best in you? Do they make you feel like they are only interested in you? Do they challenge you and make you want to be a better individual? Do they treat you like a lady and make you feel special?

    Consider the negative qualities of each guy: Even though you may only see the positive things about someone when you like them, try to think about the negative #things as well, especially if you have to decide who you really want to be with. Do they have a lot of baggage? Are they bossy or manipulative and they always try to get their way? Have they ever lied to you? Do they constantly get in trouble?

    Consider how each guy feels about you: If you have to choose between two #men, you should also consider how each of them feels about you. Even if you might be tempted to go with the one who likes you more just because he is a safer choice, try to be fair and find out as much as you can about the feelings they have for you.

    Ask your friends for their opinion: If you are in doubt and you don’t know who to choose, you could also ask your trusted friends for their opinion. After all, they are there to offer you a shoulder to lean on and to give you advice when you need it. Don’t ask them who they like better, but who do they think is better for you.

    Weigh their similarities and differences: You could make a list for each guy with all the #things you like and don’t like about them. Basically, you could do a pro/con chart for each guy’s strengths and weaknesses. This chart might help you figure out who you really want, so give it a try.

    Don't rush it: This is an important decision and important decisions take time, so don’t rush it. As long as you are not committed to any of them, you shouldn’t feel guilty because you are not betraying anyone. On the other hand, try not to drag it on too long. Think about their feelings too but don’t make a hasty decision.