Marriage betwwen old and young, who enjoys?

MARRIAGE is the union between a man and a woman. There are different kinds of marriage: monogamy,

polygamy amongst others. The commonest kind of marriage is monogamy, this kind of marriage is contracted with the consent of both parties involved in it. The choice of one's spouse differs amongst individuals. It has to do with their choice for age,  intelligence, physique, looks, complexion, size, character amongst other preferences.

  The age of one's spouse depends on one's preference or choice, but commonly the men prefer younger spouse while the women prefer older spouse.

  Most women prefer age difference of 5-12 between them and their husbands while men preferences differs.

  In recent time, many young ladies go for men that are twice their age, that is men that are as old as their father's age.

  Asking students of the Federal Polytechnic Oko, their opinion of young ladies marrying older men, they have this to say. A lady Clara by name said, “Personally I can't marry a man that is as old as my father, at most my spouse should be  8-10 years older. In my opinion ladies who marry older men twice their age has ulterior motives for that”.  Contributing, Onyeka  Okpala noted “I think ladies  who do that, do it for wealth and other reasons  best known to them, but money is the main reason they marry men twice their age. For me if I see someone who will take good care of me, why not?” she said.

  According to findings, there are several reasons most young ladies prefer older men twice their age.

  Some of the young ladies who are attracted to men as twice their age, believe that older men are more established, have their own house and are willing to share it with them. They also believe the men have got all that is required to make  life comfortable for them and are more intelligent.

  When it comes to intelligence, it is commonly believed that older men are typically super smart and carry on great conversations, it all boils down to experience, for stimulating conversation, the older men are it. Amongst the young ladies, they believe that older men are well read, and are typically some of the most well-read men. They believe that most of the idle men are mostly the younger ones, previously I said older men are more established, it boils down to their career. Older men can be anything from managers of their own businesses, chief executive officers (CEO) of an organization amongst others.

  The older men are believed to be well mannered, while younger men are typically all about the changes, it could be anything from the way you dress, to the time you go to bed but older men won't try to change you, infact they will appreciate the woman that you have grown to become.

  Younger ladies believed that older men are sexually experienced. Experience alone is a great reason, not only that they are extremely sexually experienced but really listen to their partner.

  Contributing, they explained that a lot of people stare, when they see a younger woman with an older man, and they find the idea of annoying the public incredibly sexy. Ladies that like older men believe they are matured, and aren't going to make inappropriate jokes, that will cause a fight.

  They aren't going to force you to hang out with their partying friends, who will down shot after shot. He is likely to invite you to quiet evenings with interesting conversation. Young men are only looking to have fun, they are hardly committed to relationships, because they have their whole life ahead of them but older men are usually ready to commit themselves, you won't have to convince them to buy you a diamond ring, because marriage is already on their mind.

  The ladies enjoy the fact that older men are better communicators, and  have been in plenty of relationships before, so they know how it works. They know that communications and compromise are important, if you are going to succeed as a couple, they won't screw things up in a stupid way like most young men do.

  Some women believed older men are more attractive and more chivalrous than the younger men.They feel young when they are around older men and dating them boost their confidence.

  It is generally believed that when a younger woman marry or dates an older man, they assume she is only interested in his money. For some that is true, if a woman wants to receive fancy jewelry and never want to pay for that, then older men with a good job is exactly what she needs.

  If you are placed in dangerous situation, you'll feel safe with an old man than with a younger man, you'll be assured by his wisdom and assume that he will be able to save you from whatever hardship that occurs.